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Parents can frequently overstep their boundaries and cause issues in a person’s relationships. As we get older, our parents continue to believe that they are the greatest decision-makers for us, especially when it comes to finding love.
While some choose to ignore them and carry on with their life, pursuing their desires, others of us choose to pay attention to their opinions.
Sons always make their mothers feel quite protective of them.
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Boys’ mothers frequently get deeply involved in their affairs when it comes to dating and marriage. They invest their opinions in relationships, and they frequently make their love lives more difficult.
Mothers have even been known to ruin weddings and marriages.
We have all heard about how irrational mothers can become when they feel unappreciated or dissatisfied with their son’s decisions; some of them even ruin key moments like their son’s wedding day.
A mother who went too far and made her son’s wedding into a nightmare was the subject of a recent Facebook page post.
On the day of their wedding, one man was all set to marry his fiancée, but his mother intervened and voiced her viewpoint.
She seemed to dislike the bride’s appearance.
Prior to their wedding, the mother had only seen the bride in photographs. She was angry and disappointed to see how her son’s wife appeared when she came to the wedding.
The mother of the groom thought the bride was “too unattractive.”
Lamia Al-Labawi, a Tunisian who also happens to be an orphan, is reportedly the bride. Her own parents were not there at the wedding as a result. Despite being there to offer support, the mother of the groom thought she was “too short” and “too ugly” when she saw her at the wedding.
In contrast, the mother of the groom claimed that the marriage was unfair.
According to the Facebook post, the mother of the groom believed that her son’s beauty was far superior to that of the girl, and that it was wrong to have him marry her.
The mother attempted to convince her son.
Due to her dissatisfaction with the bride’s appearance, the mother of the groom stepped in front of the wedding and spoke to her son, encouraging him to leave and “escape” in order to avoid having to marry her.
Of course, everyone has heard about unhappy mothers.
The stories of unhappy moms and evil mothers-in-law who set out to ruin their children’s lives are countless, yet we rarely hear of the children listening to and obeying them.
The groom took inappropriate action.
The groom decided to listen to his mother in front of the entire ceremony when his mother created a disturbance at the wedding by making a big deal out of the bride’s appearance and fled.
This bride was clearly ashamed.
She felt humiliated and mortified when her fiance left her at their own wedding, as any bride who is abandoned at the altar would. She had to interact with every person who had attended the wedding since there were so many of them.
Lamia posted on social media about her feelings once the wedding was over.
Lamia, an orphan, had saved up money and spent a lot of it to make their wedding really spectacular; it’s terrible that it didn’t even happen because of the groom’s mother, who would have been her mother-in-law.
People started writing sincere messages to Lamia online as they could relate to her suffering
Many people on social media who read about Lamia’s situation and heard the news started to offer their words of wisdom and counsel to her as she was dealing with what had happened.
Hedi Al-Mejri, a theater performer from Tunisia, even confronted Lamia.
“You didn’t lose a man. You lost something that might have brought bad luck into your life. You attained unrivaled luxury and freedom. Don’t be broken, and don’t claim to be an orphan, “Al-Mejri stated.
Others claimed Lamia would have a better future and that this was a lesson for life.
The future is more beautiful, God willing, and Lamia is a lesson from the teachings of life, commented Facebook user Sana Cherif. “The world is lessons, and one must distinguish between the man and the male. My Lord will replace her with good, and God willing, the next is good.
In a video posted on social media, Lamia expressed gratitude to those who got in touch.
Lamia released a social media video to express her gratitude to everyone for their generosity, love, and support during her trying time after receiving a lot of advice and kind words online.
What a horrible woman!! And Lamia didn’t lose a man, she lost a foolish boy. My ex-mother-in-law interfered from day one and my ex warned me that she would. She always had before. She attempted suicide several times to control her son. Even after her Alcoholic Anonymous group told her to leave her son alone, she still wouldn’t stop. She tried to commit suicide again and I told him she’s going to keep up the drama because it works. If you do what she says, she will keep attempting suicide. She and his Dad were both very old. He told her that he was coming to a time in his life when he knew he was going to be alone and he didn’t want to be alone, he wanted to be with me. After we were together almost 2 years, we got married. Unfortunately, I got sick. His mother told him that he had not only ruined his life by marrying me, he’d ruined theirs as well.
I’d paid all our wedding and other bills with my lump sum distribution from Disability. We got 2 dogs and planted a tree. Then, while his mother and father fanned the flames, he turned hateful. That, to me, shined another light on why he really married me. My income had dropped on Disability. Having trusted too much and having paid off our debts, I was trapped for 10 years of their abuse. When I was finally able to go, I went back home to Missouri and ended up marrying a guy who had had a crush on me since he was sixteen. He was wonderful to me! I wish my life hadn’t been high jacked for those 10+ years. We could’ve had more time together. My wonderful new husband only lived another 10years. He passed over 4 years ago.
Lamia, you missed a bullet that hit me! I know it was horribly painful, and of course humiliating, but it doesn’t seem his intentions toward you were honorable. If he clings to his mother like THAT, he’s still just a boy. I am certain, God has something far better in store for you. Be glad that he wasn’t be in the way of your happiness. Count your blessings Lamia! Take care!
I think the mother is wrong and a person should expect the person they marrying not worry what others have to think.
She is very lucky she didn’t marry the mamas boy !!
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I think this abandoned bride,, would have stepped into a world of trouble had she married this ” momma’s boy!”
Clearly he has no spine!
When yomatry someone you take on their family, especially their parents, as well. I know the pain of having a mother in law who didn’t think I was good enough for her son.
I also know the pain and anger when my husband did not stand up for me! I learned to stand up for myself but stressful relationship all of my married life!
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